The New Indian Bride

A bride-to-be with a new perspective on the modern Indian wedding.

Rejection May 24, 2010

Filed under: The Groom,Uncategorized — The New Indian Wife @ 5:17 pm

It is a gloomy day here in the San Francisco Bay Area and it just got a whole lot gloomier.  My Leading Man has five sisters all living in India.  Two were hoping to make the journey with their families to the US for the wedding.  However, we just learned that their visas were rejected. 

The American Embassy in India questioned why the wedding is taking place abroad when the Groom and Groom’s family are from India.  Well Mr. US-Embassy-in-India, we are having the wedding here in the US because my family is here and we are having the reception in India because the Groom’s family is there.  We worked out a compromise to fit our situation – two families living continents apart.  Mr. US-Embassy-in-India, how hard was that to understand? 

I am so very disappointed mostly for My Leading Man who was hoping his sisters and their families would join his parents for this important occassion.  I am disappointed for his sisters who have been looking forward to their little brother’s wedding since they were kids. I am disappointed for his seven year old niece, who was admiring her passport each day and talking about her trip to America for her Mammu’s wedding.

 

Introducing My Leading Man May 20, 2010

Filed under: The Groom — The New Indian Wife @ 8:26 pm

Now before I get carried away writing about the wedding, I would like to introduce you to the Groom, whom I will lovingly refer to in this blog as My Leading Man.

The first time I met My Leading Man he honked at me (twice) from across the street.  Apparently, he thought we were in Jalandhar and not Berkeley.  Those two honks and a fabulous Mexican meal where just the beginning.   

I can’t say it was love at first site.  It was more like “he seems worth going out with again” at first site, “very intriguing” at third or forth site and then somewhere along the way I realized, this is love. 

We have experienced love highs and love lows.  But through it all, I always believed we were connected on a deeper spiritual level. Slowly our story played itself out and as My Leading Man said to me a few days after we were engaged, it was simply meant to be. 

Amongst his most fabulous qualities is his ability to cook.  Ladies, when I say cook, I do not mean assemble food or heat things up in the microwave.  I mean he prepares fabulous meals from scratch each and every day that have me licking the last little bites off the plate. 

This week alone he prepared a home made vegetable soup (from scratch); a delicious summer salad complete with a vinagrette he whipped up himself; angel hair pasta with chicken, green peas, cherry tomatoes, zucchini and loads of garlic; and last night was Lamb Briyani – spicy and enchanting!

Even if he did not spoil me with his cullinary skills, I would still love him. He is incredibly patient, willing to do anything for those he loves, funny, charismatic, blends into my family with ease and in my opinion dashingly handsome.  His Punjabi flare just makes me adore him all the more.

 

 
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